What to wear to your engagement session

What To Wear To Your Engagement Session

Let’s just face it. One of the toughest decisions many of us face daily is what to wear. Go ahead, just admit it. It’s fine. However, imagine adding something important to the mix. A special event, occasion, or engagement session, perhaps? Stress levels officially increase by 1,000%. Now what? Trying to figure out what to wear for your engagement session can feel like a constant nagging thought in the back of your brain. Luckily for you, I’ve come up with some helpful tips on what to wear to your engagement session. These tips are a sure-fire way to make sure you are lookin’ & feelin’ fierce.

Stick to Neutrals

Neutrals are going to be your best friend when deciding what to wear for your engagement session. Think about it, neutrals go with just about anything. If you’re worried about what your partner will wear and whether you’ll look good together in photos, always stick with neutrals. Tones like beige, tan, cream, black, white, and camel are all great examples of what color palettes you can stick to if you’re in a tussle about what to wear.

Comfort = Confidence

Make sure whatever you pick to wear for your engagement session is something you feel confident in… discomfort translates very easily on camera. Looking back at your photos, the last thing you want to see is that you/your partner are uncomfortable in their clothes. You want to make sure you’re 100% comfortable in what you’re wearing. While of course, you want to make sure you are looking for the best version of yourself, that doesn’t mean you need to go entirely outside of your scope. If you feel comfortable wearing a ball gown out, don’t wear one to your engagement session. Choose outfits that reflect your best self and make you feel amazing in front of the camera.

Avoid Distracting Patterns & Logos

Have you ever seen something so complex that it distracts you? That can oftentimes happen, especially in photography, when someone wears a pattern or logo that is a bit heavy. A heavy or “distracting” pattern would be similar to having a relatively complex pattern. A bright neon floral dress can disrupt the photo and, in retrospect, make the subjects (aka YOU) not the main focus. As we all know, during your engagement session, you ARE the focus. Avoid patterns, logos, and designs that can easily distract you and your partner. We want all of the attention on you, don’t forget!

Formal & Casual Outfit Options

Depending on your schedule, you may be able to bring 2 outfits to your engagement session. Not only does it feel like you are getting two sessions in one, but you can also choose a more formal or a more casual outfit. Something formal might be a long, flowy dress, a suit, or high heels. While something more casual like chinos, a flowy blouse & skirt, flats, etc. If you are looking for more outfit inspiration for formal & casual outfits, check out my Pinterest here!

Dress Appropriately For The Season

Making sure you dress appropriately for the season is SO important when deciding what to wear to your engagement session. While yes, those new sandals you bought are cute. Maybe not the best option in the dead of winter, though. While I am all for freedom of expression and wearing whatever you like, I would suggest taking the time of year into account. You can use the seasons to your advantage!

  • For Summer & Spring Weather – maybe going barefoot on the beach, wearing some sandals & shorts, or even a flowy dress
  • For Winter & Fall, use those cold – weather accessories to your advantage! Hats, gloves, and scarves can help keep you warm

Complement with Your Partner – Don’t Match

I recommend complementing your partner instead of matching. Complementary essentially means building your outfits around key components.

For example, your partner could wear a blue button-down shirt and neutral-toned pants, while you could wear a flowy white dress with small accents of blue to match the shirt. While you aren’t overpowering the color palette, you can still complement each other and remain cohesive.

Communication, Communication, Communication

Making sure you communicate with your photographer for your engagement session is KEY! It’s our job as photographers to make sure you feel 100% comfortable in front of the lens. If you have any questions or concerns regarding your engagement session and what to wear, ask away! We are here to listen and make sure you are looking and feeling your best as you celebrate this next big step in your and your partner’s lives.

Pamper Yourself w/ Professional Hair & Makeup

Who says that you need to wait until your wedding day to get glammed up? Not me! Your engagement session is a celebration and should be treated as such. If you want to get your hair & makeup done for your engagement photos, I say hell yes! Sit back and relax as someone pamper you for some of the most memorable photos of your life.

Make A Day Of It

Make a day out of your engagement session! The fun doesn’t have to just stop when your photos do; in fact, that can be just the beginning. You can go to your engagement session, grab a bite to eat, and have a date night. If you are getting glammed up for the camera, why not take it a step further and make the whole day a celebration?

If you’ve made it this far, I know this can be a lot of information all at once. If you’re in need of a photographer for your engagement session, your girl is ready! Click here to fill out my inquiry form, and let’s get chattin’.

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